Affirmation Tag: Teaching Kids Positive Affirmations Through Play

Why Affirmation Tag Works

I am strong and capable.

You might be wondering, why mix affirmations with a game? The answer lies in the psychology of learning. Kids are more likely to remember and internalize lessons when they are engaged and having fun.

The Science Behind It:

I am always learning and growing.

1. Neuroplasticity: The young brain is incredibly malleable. Positive affirmations can help create neural pathways that support a positive mindset.
2. Kinesthetic Learning: Many children learn best through movement and play. Affirmation Tag caters to these kinesthetic learners.
3. Repetition: The game naturally involves repetition, which is key to learning and internalizing affirmations.

How to Play Affirmation Tag

In a traditional game of Tag, one person is “it” and chases the others, trying to tag one of them. Affirmation Tag adds a twist by incorporating positive affirmations into the game, turning it into an educational yet fun experience.

I am brave and fearless.

Playing Affirmation Tag is simple but involves some key steps to make it more effective and engaging for children.

1. Start Simple: Begin with easy-to-understand affirmations like “I am brave” or “I am kind.” Write these affirmations on cards or pieces of paper.

2. Involve Everyone: Make sure every child gets a turn to be “it.” The child who is “it” will hold an affirmation card and chase the others.

3. Tag and Speak: When a child is tagged, they must stop, read the affirmation on the card, and say it out loud. Only then can they continue playing.

4. Affirmation Cards: Use cards with pre-written affirmations to add an element of surprise to the game. Kids can draw a card when they’re tagged and read the affirmation aloud.

5. Time Limit: Set a time limit for each round to keep the game moving and to give everyone a chance to be “it.”

6. Reflect: After the game, gather the kids and discuss the affirmations used. Ask them how saying and hearing these affirmations made them feel. This reflection time is crucial for internalizing the positive messages.

7. Variations: To keep the game fresh, introduce new affirmations or rules. For example, you could have a theme-based Affirmation Tag where all affirmations relate to courage, kindness, or another virtue.

8. Adult Participation: Adults can join in too! This not only makes the game more fun but also serves as a model for the children, showing them how to articulate affirmations.

9. Safe Space: Make sure the playing area is safe and free from obstacles to prevent accidents.

10. Positive Reinforcement: Always end the game with some form of positive reinforcement, whether it’s clapping for everyone or giving out small rewards like stickers.

What if my child doesn’t understand the affirmation?

I am open to learning new things.

If a child struggles to understand an affirmation, use that moment as a teaching opportunity. Explain the affirmation in simpler terms and relate it to something they understand.

Is this game suitable for very young children?

I am loved and cherished.

Yes, but you may need to simplify the affirmations and rules. For toddlers, even simple phrases like “I’m good” can be impactful.

The Bigger Picture: Affirmation Tag and Emotional Intelligence

I am aware of my feelings and can express them.

Beyond just being a fun game, Affirmation Tag teaches kids to be aware of their emotions and equips them with the language to express themselves positively.

Affirmation Tag is an investment in your child’s emotional and mental well-being. It’s a fun, engaging way to introduce the power of positive thinking to the next generation.

I am a positive influence on others.